Money: What Works for You? Money management is very personal, but I think it can be helpful to read about how others make their money work for them, so that you can find what works best for you! Today Ivy shares with us how she handles her finances.
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How I Manage My Money is a guest post from Ivy.
How do I manage money? I just had to write a guest post on this topic as it has been my quest to live below my means for the last 8 years.
I grew up in a home where my parents were not very good with money. My father would get his paycheck, stick it in the bank, and buy whatever he wanted. My mother was convinced that she was frugal because she only bought items that were on sale or from outlets but was constantly shopping. Needless to say, I didn’t learn very good habits.
In 2005, with collection agencies calling daily, I had to deal with my financial issues. I read everything I could get my hands on about personal finance. My favorite guru is Dave Ramsey. To say he saved my life is an understatement. Despite that, obtaining financial peace has been a two step forward, one step back process.
Currently, this is what I do:
* I get paid once a month.
* I make a monthly budget on a spreadsheet spending every dollar of my paycheck which can fluctuate month to month.
* As soon as I get paid, I immediately pay all my bills, most of which I pay online, 2 require checks.
* I take out cash to pay all my groceries, gas, hair care, and what I call my “blow fund.”
I used to have a monthly budget for all those categories, but I realized that I was spending everything in the first two weeks and poverty stricken the last two. Now I do a weekly budget and put that on spreadsheets below the monthly spreadsheet.
I live fairly simply, but it is still difficult. I have also learned that certain things do not work for me like using credit cards and cell phones. I have one card in my wallet, but it is only in case I am stranded at the side of the road.
Not many people understand or relate to how I spend money. I do things like:
* Go to 1/2 price days at thrift shops for clothes.
* Use a pay-as-you-go phone for which I pay less than 10 dollars a month.
* I have basic, basic cable for which I pay 11 dollars a month.
* Buy my food at discount food stores.
* Do as much as I can with my kids from home like baking, game playing, watching movies, and crafts.
Eight years ago, I had mounting debts, no emergency fund and gave nothing to retirement. Now I have no debts except my car, $2,000 in an emergency fund and I give 7 percent of my salary to retirement, which is matched by my employer’s 8 percent.
At forty-eight, I am not exactly in perfect financial condition, but I am on the path to financial success and I am in a position to teach my two children good financial habits. I am continually learning new and better habits and my new goals are:
* To get my emergency fund up to 5,000 by the end of the school year.
* To give 2 percent by the end of this year to my Roth IRA.
Hopefully this post was helpful and I wish everyone financial peace.
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Ivy Miller is a single mom of two living in Northeastern Pennsylvania. She is a teacher and a librarian at a private school. She considers living below her means to be one of the greatest gifts life can give and a choice everyone has the power to make. Besides financial management, she is interested in writing, creativity and communications.
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Do you have a post somewhere on budgeting (cash only basis) when your weekly income fluctuates? My husband used to have a salary position but recently it switched to non salary. Each week our paycheck can range from $266 (minimum wage) and up (commission). Rent is due the first of the month: which is obviously our largest bill. Is it possible to begin the cash only premise, at the beginning of a month, with nothing set aside already? Does my question make sense??
Hi Julie! We have a fluctuating income as well. Basically we have a second checking account with a weekly amount written at the top of a spreadsheet for each of the bills we have to pay and for irregular expenses. When we get paid we take the money for groceries and nonfood/toiletry items out in cash. We leave the gas money for the week in the primary account plus a cushion of $20. The rest of the money is transferred to our second account which has a spreadsheet with the bills listed in order of priority for us. So rent is first, then utilities, then car insurance, etc. You can read more here: https://thepeacefulmom.com/click-to-print-freedom-account-page/
We put the money that we have in the most important category (we don’t want to be kicked out of our home, so that is more important than paying life insurance for example). If a bill comes due before we have all the money, we will take money from lower priority items (or bills that have a due date that is further out) to pay it and then replenish those categories as we have money.
I would strongly suggest that you cut all unnecessary spending until you can get a small emergency fund built up now that you have irregular income. I hope that helps. Let me know if you have any other questions. 🙂